Men only want one thing from me - why?

Again and again, women complain that men only want sex from them. And in the end, that is exactly what the men get from them. These are the very women who need to rethink their approach.

Men only want one thing from me
Men only want one thing from me

Men are hunters and don't want to see their supposed prey lying at their feet right away. They want to stroke their ego and win the woman over. When they run into women who hop into bed with the so-called big shot right away, there is usually an immediate or near-immediate retreat. The man loses his sense of the woman's value, and of course the thrill of the chase as well. This pattern doesn't just affect young women, it spares neither old nor young.

Anyone looking for love and a relationship should therefore switch on her brain and not float around on a pink cloud.

So how should a woman go about finding love?

There are various alternative forms of relationship, such as the open relationship or being a "mingle." Mingle means you meet up, sleep together, and do plenty of things together, but you're not in a relationship. If you want a relationship, take a closer look at the man in front of you and keep him guessing. Because when a man really wants something, he steps on the gas.

How can a woman tell that the man doesn't just want her for the bedroom:

  • He gets in touch regularly
  • he gives her flowers
  • he wants her to be doing well
  • he spends a lot of time with her
  • he introduces her to his friends and parents
  • he lets her be part of his life

Men only want one thing from me: and what you can do about it

Get back in touch with your self-love, and if you want to land a man, don't go to bed with him right away. Yet women all too often think that if they make a man wait too long. A man who wants a woman can wait!

Because in the end, it's not the man who goes to bed with the woman, it's the woman who goes to bed with the man! She holds the power over that. A man doesn't fall in love through sex, he falls in love with the woman as she is.

Women who feel merely used are often to blame themselves. In that moment, they reduce themselves to the sexual alone. It often has to do with fear of loss, too, when a woman sleeps with a man too early. She thinks he'll be gone then.

On the other hand, a woman of course has her own sexual desires that she wants to fulfill. But in the end, it's better for the relationship between man and woman to wait. Otherwise she feels used afterwards, when he's gone again. Waiting pays off!