To me, happiness and love means living with carefree lightness. Having arrived, far from any worries.

But isn't it true that we grow precisely through life's challenges? It shocks me again and again when women make their personal happiness depend on a single love. They aren't open to the world and the many other men in it. They hold on to men who for them are:

Happiness and Love - How to Manage Both

Happiness and love
  • only wanting a fling
  • a one-night stand
  • disrespectful
  • out to dominate

It's hard when a woman has fallen head over heels in love. But losing all dignity must not happen. Under certain circumstances women end up in a downright victim role, especially with men who have narcissistic traits. These women in particular have a strong longing for both. But the two shouldn't necessarily be mentioned in the same breath, because happiness is one thing and love is another. Combined they're nearly perfect, but love comes much more easily through personal happiness. Or doesn't it?

Happiness and Love - Is Both Possible?

Happiness and love don't necessarily have to merge. Or isn't love also happiness? These are two words that enchant. Some people say: "I'm just unlucky, I can't find love!" But whoever first finds happiness within themselves will pave the way for the other more easily. Someone who is happy radiates it. Has a smile on their face and a more positive aura. Their whole energy field is more positive, and then the two come together all by themselves.

Happiness and love

Partnership is essential for many women. Many women don't feel complete without a partner at their side. They'd rather be in a bad relationship than have no partner at all. These women find it hard to let go. But it's so much nicer to lie on the couch alone in the evening with a good book than to put up with a nagging partner. He does nothing but complain and shoos her into the kitchen. Is that a happy partnership? He doesn't want to change anything. He dominates! Of course not every relationship is marked by this kind of behavior, but letting go is hard. Because hope dies last. He used to be so different!

Be happy with yourself and you'll attract the right partner

Men find it easier to be alone. Even when men want a relationship, by and large they are happier. They can wait it out and have clear ideas of what they want.

Women should take a leaf out of their book. That's right! Not everyone is like that, and not every woman defines her happiness through a man. But by and large, quite a few women have some catching up to do!